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  • Doing Nothing

    Doing Nothing

    ByToby Wedgle June 30, 2025January 14, 2026

    Depending on where you are in your divorce process, you may be one of those people who believes that telling your ex when they’re wrong is absolutely the thing you’re supposed to do.

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  • Letting Everything Be

    Letting Everything Be, Just As It Is

    ByToby Wedgle June 11, 2025January 14, 2026

    The thing about it is, when we let ourselves feel our feelings, like, really let them be there just as they are, then we’re able to move out of our anger, our righteousness, our victimhood.

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  • You are Worth Supporting

    You Are Worth Supporting

    ByToby Wedgle May 10, 2025January 14, 2026

    I see a lot of people who believe that they don’t have the time or energy to do things to take care of themselves.

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  • Living By Chaos

    Living By Chaos

    ByToby Wedgle April 14, 2025January 14, 2026

    Living with someone who displays behaviors and makes decisions based on their own self-interest, coupled with a lack of concern for the needs of others, can be extremely disruptive.

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  • Checking Oursevles Contempt

    Checking Ourselves for Contempt

    ByToby Wedgle April 14, 2025January 14, 2026

    Adults locked in battle over a position to which they are holding so tightly that they cannot see the other person’s experience.

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  • Avoid the Fight

    Avoid the Fight at All Costs

    ByToby Wedgle February 7, 2025January 14, 2026

    The family court system, with its outdated and uninformed structure, believes that families who can’t get along do so because both parties are behaving badly.

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  • The Safety of Good Boundaries

    The Safety of Good Boundaries

    ByToby Wedgle January 19, 2025January 14, 2026

    See, I had it all wrong in my head. I thought being a strong and empowered woman meant I was untouchable; I said what meant and meant what I said even if people didn’t like it.

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  • Boundary Goals 2025

    Boundary Goals for 2025

    ByToby Wedgle December 31, 2024January 14, 2026

    We hear a lot about the relationships between the narcissist and the codependent—where there is one in relationship, there is usually always the other.

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  • Divorce Empowerment

    Divorce Empowerment

    ByToby Wedgle December 17, 2024January 14, 2026

    I catch myself getting furious over my ex’s inflexibility, or feeling powerless when he does something I don’t like.

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