END THE CONFLICT WITH YOUR EX

PARENT YOUR KIDS

AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE

You’ve already left. You’re divorcing, or divorced. And you’re slowly coming to terms with the fact that the conflict, the abuse, has not stopped.

You’ve watched all the Instagram hacks, you’ve tried all the tactics—the grey rocking and BIFF responses—and you still feel like you’re locked in battle with your high-conflict or personality disordered ex.

It’s been shown that conflict between parents is the number one determining factor of whether children have a positive outcome from divorce or not.

And because of the stress, you can feel your health and your well-being deteriorating.

You need real help.

As a Certified Divorce Mediator, professionally trained High-Conflict Divorce Coach, and a long-time Healthcare Provider in Alternative medicine, I know what you’ve been through

And I can help.

  • “I found Toby to be remarkably supportive and understanding as I’ve been approaching the separation with my partner. Toby has been able to hold space for me and give the perfect antidote in that moment of grief — a succinct nugget of wisdom that I could hold onto even after our session. It’s like she could see into the future and provide sage advice that applied to that one moment and beyond. Ever grateful for Toby’s magic and support through this process.”

You Can….

  • Change the way you communicate with your ex.
  • Change the way you think and talk about your ex.
  • Parent your children with as little contact with your co-parent as possible
  • Get your health—mental and physical—back; sleep peacefully, eat healthfully, exercise, and create time and space for yourself to heal, grow, and get strong
  • Stop living under the shadow of a high-conflict divorce and start living in the light of your own well-being, your own strength, your own clarity of mind, creating your own peaceful lives with your kids.

The answers are already inside you, and it’s not about the other parent.

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  • “During a very challenging time, Toby walked with me, created safe space and asked beautiful questions which helped me discover answers that were both affirming and empowering.”

WHAT I OFFER

  • “It’s Toby’s warmth, wisdom, dedication and compassion that have given me the quality of life I have today.”

You will feel empowered and confident in your new life. 

You will enjoy healthier relationships with your kids and future partners. 


You will experience peace of mind, free from conflict.

If you’re ready to end divorce conflict and transform your life,
divorce coaching with me is your path to freedom.

If you’re ready to end divorce conflict and transform your life, coaching with me is your path to freedom